This statement is interesting and has kind of stuck with me, but i cant remember where i saw it - 'If god is going to send you down a rough path then he will provide tough boots.'

Take the term 'God' Lightly, i find a lot of people run a mile at the sight of it. Trying to define god is like trying to hold water in your hands.

God can be an unlimited amount of different things, views, role's, feelings to different people, the word doesn't have to comply with any written or recorded religion.

I believe in something bigger...something with in us all, something we are, whether that is energy, fate, love or a bigger purpose...so i do think it makes sense that something in you knows if you are equipped for the challenge your facing, and if in the grand scheme of things you will improve or come off worse. So listen to yourself / god and don't be scared of a rough road if you feel you are equipped for the journey.

I think this is a useful mentality to take on when facing potential change.